Love by Design Polina Solda

Can you believe it? It’s the end of the year of 2022 already. And, it’s the end of the Love by Design podcast.
I spent two years and paid thousands of dollars to record and produce 85 episodes that thousands of people listened to… and loved.
You probably wonder, “WHY???”

The answer is simple. My new podcast Find the Right Man is BETTER. 

And I want you and new listeners to start the new year there.

But even deeper…. I let go of attachment to where I’ve been. I’m committed to where I am going.

I choose to live in the possibility that exists in the future. Because…

You can’t find what you want to create in your future by looking in your past. 

You might be attached to the fact that you haven’t found the right man yet. Or that you’re attracting the wrong type of men…. Or that dating is hard and it takes a long time to find love.

You might be attached to who you have been and what you have been through. REALLY believing THAT tells who you authentically are and what your authentic love story is.

But I’m more interested in who you want to become. What you want to create in your future love relationship. THAT is your authentic story.

It’s the possibility that exists in your future. 

Your future can be MORE real than your past.

What determines that? YOU.

Where you put your attention. Where you spend time and energy. Where you direct your thoughts.

That’s why I decided to create a new podcast. 

Every Thursday at 5 pm Eastern, you’ll get access to a new weekly episode.

I’ll be teaching you my most powerful coaching dating concepts to find the right man. 

Happy new year!

-Polina

You CAN meet your man in just a few simple steps.

Even if it hasn’t “worked out” in the past.

Your current age, location and amount of free time are enough.

It isn’t impossible or hard. You don’t have to struggle. 

In this week’s episode #84 How to Meet Your Man with My Proven System, you’re about to discover:
✨The three biggest mistakes women make that keep them single
✨How to avoid these mistakes and what to do differently
✨A proven process for finding the right man in just three simple steps How to save years of doing a lot of the wrong things cause loneliness
✨Exactly what to do to start meeting the type of men you want
✨And how to actually have fun dating! 

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

Probably the biggest problem women who aren't meeting their man have  is that they're spending all of their time solving for the wrong things. 

Women do more personal growth, they go to therapy and take self-help courses on how to be better about themselves. But the thing is that if you can spend years in personal growth and still be single if you aren’t showing up in the way that will get men to pursue you.

Women who search for an ideal man who can check off all the boxes on their list can’t find him. No one is perfect. If you yourself aren't the perfect woman, there's no way you're going to find the perfect man. He doesn’t exist. 

What you think carries with you an energy that literally pushes men away. It's just not attractive and not interesting to men. 

You become a Chooser and can quickly find and create a small dating pool of most compatible with you men and choose the best life partner for you.

—Polina

How can you create the high-quality dating experience of attracting high-quality men to you?
Your thoughts create your results in love—your thoughts about the quality of men, the quality of the dating experience and what's possible for you in love.
What you can create in love depends on whether it's based on your past, your perceived  limitations, fear, lack or doubt, or whether it’s coming from a place of possibility—a future that doesn't exist yet.

That’s exactly what I explore in this new episode, #82, “High-Quality Dating.” 

You’re about to discover:
✨ What creates a high-quality dating experience
✨ How you can increase the quality of your dating experience
✨ Powerful questions to ask yourself to elevate your dating experience
✨ Why focusing on the “how” isn’t the top priority, and what actually is
✨ How your dating experience shifts when you make your own shift

Click here to listen to this podcast now.

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

What you can create in love depends on whether it's based on your past, your perceived  limitations, fear, lack or doubt, or whether it’s coming from a place of possibility—a future that doesn't exist yet.

If you have a low-quality dating experience now, you can completely elevate it because your dating experience gets created through your thoughts and feelings. 

When you show up with an open heart and the full belief that you're going to attract high-quality men, there’s no doubt you'll be in a relationship with your soulmate. 

When you’re fully connected to your type, when you know exactly who you are, when you tap into your unique source of energy and power, there’s no doubt you’ll find love.

When you think high-quality thoughts about yourself, about dating and about men you meet, you start attracting high-quality men.

—Polina

P.S. If you want to add finding love to your list for the next year, book a consultation call with me to get started in Love by Design. From your first date to your dream relationship by learning exactly how to find the right man, you either find the right man or you get your money back. 

Have you ever wondered why some women do the exact same things in dating but get completely different results?
The simple answer is that they go through different dating phases.
Each one creates different experiences, opportunities and results.

I came up with these six dating phases based on my experience coaching thousands of women in the last 12 years. 

When you are aware of them, when you don't resist them, don’t fight against them and don't try to skip them, then you can confidently navigate your way to your dream relationship.

In this week’s episode #81, “The Six Dating Phases,” you’re about to discover:
✨ What the six dating phases are and how to know which one you’re in
✨ The biggest mistakes women make at each phase
✨ How to shift from one phase to the next 
✨ Real life examples of women who shifted through these phases
 ✨The surest way to navigate your way to your soulmate relationship

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

The biggest mistake is to decide there are no quality men, then feel discouraged and stop taking action. That’s a guaranteed way to stay single.

“How do I know if I want to be in a relationship with this man?” 
The fastest way to know is to get into a relationship with him. 

Just like preparing to run a marathon, when you train for a 5K run first, you can be in a short-term relationship before you create a lifelong soulmate relationship.

The biggest mistake women make who aren’t meeting men is thinking, “I don’t need to date. I’ll just meet my man. It's just going to happen.”

It's the same as being unemployed and saying, “I don’t need to search for a job. I’ll just get my CEO position at a Fortune 500 company. It’s just going to happen.”

It’s very simple at this phase. You meet men. You go on dates with them. You choose your dual partner and get into a relationship that doesn’t end.

—Polina

P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!

If yes, I want to offer you this perspective:
It's not what you do in dating. 

It's not what you say in your online dating profile, texts, or social media pages.

It's not whether you reach out to a guy or he reaches out to you.

None of these things matter as much as what I’m going to say..

It's what you think about when you do these things.

Because your thoughts create your feelings.

And how you feel determines what energy vibration you exude.

Men unconsciously pick up on that energy. And it will either attract them or turn them off. 

Your level of energy also determines WHO you attract and WHAT happens in your dating experience.

This is exactly what I'm talking about in this new episode #80, “Are you struggling with low-quality dating?”

In this week's episode, you're about to discover:
✨ What affects the quality of your dating experience, and how to shift it
✨ How our mind creates drama that lowers our energy vibration
✨ What causes your energy vibration to go down, and what to do about it
✨ The most common ways of thinking and behaving that keep women in low-quality dating
✨ The cost and impact of low-quality energy on you and your relationships

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 
When you step into your type, being authentically yourself and showing up in this powerful way, you will have very new and different experiences in dating.

Your brain looks for the familiar, and your brain looks for all or nothing. “I'm either attracted immediately, or I'm not attracted at all." 

 Be prepared to have initial resistance with the type of man who is perfect for you.

If you are not sure, use what I call the "kiss test."

Being with your dual type of man works magically. It works on every level. 

—Polina

P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!

Happy 
Giving…
You can think about it from a place of lack or from a place of abundance.
The most powerful thing about giving is that you get to create within you.

You already have direct, instant access to the unlimited source of energy and love inside of you.

You can create energy and love with your thoughts.

You can give it to others with your actions.

And, you can have MORE of it with your results.

During this time of giving thanks, I want to offer you this thought:

You have something SO valuable to give.

To every MAN you’re interacting with.

You can give a smile to a man passing you on the street.

You can give a compliment to a busy barista at a coffee shop.

You can give words of encouragement to a man who messaged you on a dating app.

In this week’s episode #80 "Giving to men", you’re about to discover:
✨ The power cycle of creating, giving and having.
✨ The one thought to believe that will create an abundance of men.
✨ How you meet new men you meet everywhere to go today.
✨ The #1 skill to develop while dating that will serve you when you get into a relationship for a lifetime.
✨ What to fall in love with so you can create attraction, interest and desire in your interactions with men.
✨ Why giving to yourself is a must when it comes to creating a healthy and balanced relationship.

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 
“This is the most powerful way for you to have anything you want."
“It’s going to completely transform your relationship.”
“It's really about how we, women, show up because men will always respond to us.”
“Start with first understanding and thinking and really believing that you are the source, and you are the source of something that you can give.”
“It's so powerful to believe first that you have a source because you can only give when you have something to give.”
—Polina
P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!
Happy Thanksgiving!