Pu$$y Ain't Free

Pastel B McCoy
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Pu$$y Ain't Free

Welcome to "Pu$$y Ain’t Free," the unfiltered relationship podcast that's here to empower women to navigate the dating world with confidence. Join us for candid conversations inspired by our no-nonsense book, offering straightforward advice on finding yourself AND the right partner. Get ready to break free from toxic patterns and embrace your worth. It's time to level up—because Pu$$y Ain’t Free!

  1. APR 4

    EP 21 | BOSS YO PU$$$Y UP : A Call to action

    SUMMARY In this episode of 'Pussy Ain't Free', Pastel Brooksville McCoy shares her personal journey of empowerment and self-discovery, encouraging women to 'boss their pussy up'. She discusses the importance of setting standards in relationships, taking accountability for personal growth, and finding peace and happiness within oneself. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-improvement, both in appearance and career, while advocating for women to recognize their worth and not settle for less in life and love. TAKEAWAYS Life is beautiful, especially with new beginnings.Women need to offer something of value in relationships.It's important to set standards and not settle.Accountability is key to personal growth.Happiness must come from within, not from external factors.Self-pity and accountability are two different things.Your appearance affects how you feel about yourself.Invest in your career and financial independence.Surround yourself with people who challenge you.Every woman deserves to know her value. CHAPTER 00:00 Boss Your Pussy Up: The Concept 02:43 Understanding Women's Value 04:36 Setting Standards in Relationships 05:57 The Impact of Past Relationships 07:20 Letting Go of Toxic Relationships 09:34 Surrounding Yourself with Growth 10:25 Taking Accountability for Personal Growth 11:49 Finding Happiness Within 14:34 Materialism vs. True Happiness 16:35 The Importance of Peace 18:31 Self-Examination and Accountability 20:18 Recognizing Your Worth 21:25 Taking Care of Your Appearance 23:20 Creating a Positive Environment 24:09 Career and Financial Independence 25:07 Embracing Change and Authenticity 26:20 Setting Goals and Standards 27:58 Encouraging Others and Building a Movement 28:35 Upcoming Events and Conclusion 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/) 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree) Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast) 💌 SAY HI TO THE HOST! https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy (https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy) https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel (https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel)

    29 min

  2. MAR 16

    EP 20 | YN's VS. OLD MEN

    SUMMARY In this episode of Pussy Ain't Free, Pastel Brooksville McCoy shares her journey of becoming a grandmother and reflects on her personal growth. The conversation delves into the dynamics of dating younger men versus older men, exploring themes of emotional maturity, financial stability, and family planning. Pastel emphasizes the importance of compatibility in relationships and the need for women to set standards in their dating lives. She also discusses the responsibilities of parenting and the significance of protecting children in the context of relationships. The episode concludes with insights on personal development and upcoming projects. TAKEAWAYS Pastel is excited about becoming a grandmother and breaking generational curses.She discusses the challenges of dating younger men and the differences in approach compared to older men.Emotional maturity is crucial in relationships, and younger men may be more in tune with their partners' needs.Financial stability plays a significant role in dating dynamics, with younger men often being more willing to spend.Family planning is essential, especially for women who have already had children and are not looking to start over.Pastel emphasizes the importance of protecting children in relationships and being mindful of their safety.Women should let men court them and not rush into relationships based on attraction alone.The podcast targets women aged 18 to 60, addressing their unique dating challenges.Pastel reflects on her past dating experiences and the importance of growth and learning from them.She shares her excitement for upcoming projects, including a new book and affirmation journals. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to a New Chapter 01:27 Embracing Grandmotherhood 02:22 Dating Younger Men vs. Older Men 09:14 Emotional Maturity in Relationships 12:55 The Dynamics of Energy and Compatibility 18:06 Financial Stability and Career Considerations 22:41 Cultural Differences in Dating 25:46 Family Planning and Responsibilities 29:46 Final Thoughts and Reflections 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/) 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/) 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree) Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast)💌 💌 SAY HI TO THE HOST! https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy (https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy) https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel (https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel)

    32 min

  3. FEB 18

    EP 19 | It's Girl Code 304

    SUMMARY In this episode of 'Pussy Ain't Free', Pastel Pretty P dives deep into the concept of girl code, discussing its importance and the violations that often occur among women. She shares personal experiences that highlight the need for loyalty and support among women, emphasizing that breaking girl code can lead to hurt and betrayal. The conversation also touches on the impact of insecurities on relationships, the importance of being a good person, and the encouragement for women to keep fighting for their dreams. Pastel reflects on her personal growth journey, the significance of self-examination, and the power of manifestation in achieving future goals. TAKEAWAYS Girl code is about loyalty and respect among women. Breaking girl code can lead to hurt and betrayal. Insecurities can cause women to sabotage each other. Being a good person is essential for healthy relationships. Women should support each other and celebrate successes. Personal growth involves self-examination and reflection. Manifestation can help achieve future goals. It's important to remove toxic people from your life. Women need a supportive community to thrive. Keep fighting for your dreams, no matter the obstacles. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction and Connection with Listeners 00:55 Understanding Girl Code 03:44 Breaking Down Girl Code Violations 10:09 The Impact of Insecurities on Relationships 17:10 The Importance of Being a Good Person 20:57 Encouragement for Women to Keep Fighting 27:18 Personal Growth and Self-Examination 31:50 Manifestation and Future Goals 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/) 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/) 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree) Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast) 💌 SAY HI TO THE HOST! https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy (https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy) https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel (https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel)

    33 min

  4. FEB 7

    EP 18 | These are My Confessions

    SUMMARY In this episode of 'Pu$$y Ain't Free', host Pastel Pretty P reflects on her personal growth, relationships, and the importance of self-empowerment. She shares her journey of self-realization, the challenges she faced in her relationships, and her commitment to setting boundaries. The conversation emphasizes the significance of recognizing one's worth and the need for women to elevate their standards in life and relationships. Pastel encourages listeners to embrace change and pursue their dreams, reminding them that they are unbreakable. TAKEAWAYS Pastel reflects on her personal growth over the past year. She emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and not seeking validation from others. Pastel discusses the challenges of being perceived as aggressive in her professional life. She shares her decision to stop smoking and drinking for her granddaughter's sake. Pastel highlights the importance of setting boundaries in relationships. She believes in the power of women to change their narratives and elevate their standards. Pastel encourages listeners to remove toxic people from their lives. She stresses the importance of self-examination and accountability in personal growth. Pastel shares her thoughts on societal expectations of women and the need to break free from them. She concludes with a message of empowerment, urging women to pursue their dreams. CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back and Personal Reflections 10:02 Growth and Self-Realization 19:47 Relationships and Boundaries 30:10 Empowerment and Future Aspirations 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/) 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree) Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast) 💌 SAY HI TO THE HOST! https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy (https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy) https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel (https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel)

    30 min

  5. 12/11/2024

    EP 17 | Make Lemonade Bìtch!

    In this episode of 'Pussy Ain't Free', Pastel Pretty P discusses her journey of personal growth and resilience. She emphasizes the importance of making lemonade out of life's challenges, taking ownership of one's circumstances, and the significance of a clean environment and self-care. The conversation also touches on navigating relationships, healing from past hurts, and the power of positivity in shaping one's future. Pastel encourages listeners to set goals and celebrate their achievements as they move forward into a brighter future. TAKEAWAYS Focus on the positive instead of the negative. Taking ownership of your situation is crucial for change. A clean environment can lead to a clearer mind. Self-care is essential for mental health and happiness. Inner peace is vital for overcoming challenges. You are the author of your own life story. Stop self-sabotaging your happiness and success. Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small. This is your time to create the life you want. Find positivity in every situation, even the tough ones. CHAPTER 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Evolution 01:27 Making Lemonade: A Positive Mindset 04:14 Taking Ownership and Responsibility 10:01 Creating a Clean Environment for Growth 12:45 The Importance of Self-Care and Inner Peace 20:37 Building Healthy Relationships 25:05 Finding Positivity in Adversity 31:16 Setting Goals for a Bright Future 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/) 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/) 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree) Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast) 💌 SAY HI TO THE HOST! https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy (https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy) https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel (https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel)

    35 min

  6. 11/30/2024

    EP 16 |Setting Standards: NON-Negotiables

    In this episode of 'Pussy Ain't Free', Pastel Brooksville McCoy discusses the importance of setting standards and non-negotiables in dating. She emphasizes the need for women to establish clear boundaries to avoid settling for less than they deserve. The conversation also touches on the concept of degrees of separation in dating, advising listeners to date within their level to avoid unnecessary heartache and disappointment. Pastel encourages her "Butterflies" to recognize their worth and not settle for less than they deserve in relationships. TAKEAWAYS Setting standards is crucial in dating. Non-negotiables help define what you won't tolerate. Women should demand respect and accountability. Boundaries protect your emotional well-being. It's important to assess potential partners carefully. Don't date below your standards or degrees of separation. Self-worth is key to successful relationships. Be honest with yourself about what you want. Men should contribute to the relationship financially and emotionally. Empowerment comes from knowing your value and not settling. CHAPTERS 00:00 Setting Standards and Non-Negotiables 09:37 The Importance of Boundaries in Dating 19:07 Degrees of Separation in Relationships Say Hi to the Host : 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: ⁠h⁠ttps://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/)⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: ⁠⁠https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/)⁠⁠ 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree)⁠⁠

    33 min

  7. 11/07/2024

    EP 15 | Red Flags vs Green Flags & Pastel's Playbook

    In this episode of 'Pussy Ain't Free', Pastel Pretty P shares her personal journey and insights on relationships, focusing on the importance of recognizing red flags and green flags. She discusses various behaviors that indicate unhealthy relationships and emphasizes the need for strong communication, respect, and emotional intelligence. Additionally, she introduces her 'playbook' for dating, categorizing men into different packages based on their behavior and how they treat women. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder for women to demand respect and prioritize their self-worth in relationships. TAKEAWAYS Pastel shares her personal journey of heartbreak and resilience. Red flags include lack of communication and controlling behaviors. Green flags signify healthy relationships with good communication. Women should not ignore red flags in dating. Men should treat women with respect and support their goals. Pastel introduces her playbook for categorizing men in relationships. The importance of emotional intelligence in partners is highlighted. Women should not feel obligated to chase men. Self-worth is crucial in dating and relationships. Healthy boundaries are essential for personal growth. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:10 Red Flags in Relationships 12:04 Green Flags in Relationships 19:52 P's Playbook: Relationship Packages 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: ⁠h⁠ttps://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/)⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: ⁠⁠https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/)⁠⁠ 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree)⁠⁠

    31 min

  8. 11/04/2024

    EP 14 | What the Genuosity ?

    In this episode, Pastel Brooksville McCoy discusses the concept of 'genuosity,' a term she coined to describe genuine actions stemming from the heart. She shares personal experiences of betrayal and the importance of accountability in relationships. The conversation delves into the emotional games people play, the struggle for authentic connections, and the impact of judgment from others. Pastel emphasizes the need for self-reflection, personal growth, and the quest for authenticity in life. She highlights the significance of supportive relationships and the importance of staying true to oneself amidst challenges. TAKEAWAYS Genuosity is about genuine actions from the heart. Betrayal can lead to a loss of trust in relationships. Accountability is crucial for personal growth. Emotional games in relationships can be damaging. Finding genuine connections is a challenge in today's world. Judgment from others can hinder personal happiness. Self-reflection is key to understanding one's worth. Empowerment comes from supportive relationships. Staying true to oneself is essential for happiness. Nice people ultimately find their place in the world. CHAPTER 00:00 Introduction to Genuosity 02:42 Personal Betrayals and Accountability 05:53 Navigating Relationships and Emotional Manipulation 08:51 The Struggle for Genuine Connections 11:39 Facing Judgment and Societal Expectations 14:29 The Importance of Self-Value and Boundaries 17:26 Reflections on Society and Politics 20:28 Empowerment and Personal Growth 23:21 Conclusion and Call to Action 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: ⁠https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/)⁠ 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: ⁠https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/)⁠ 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree)⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast)⁠ 💌 SAY HI TO THE HOST! In this episode, Pastel Brooksville McCoy discusses the concept of 'genuosity,' a term she coined to describe genuine actions stemming from the heart. She shares personal experiences of betrayal and the importance of accountability in relationships. The conversation delves into the emotional games people play, the struggle for authentic connections, and the impact of judgment from others. Pastel emphasizes the need for self-reflection, personal growth, and the quest for authenticity in life. She highlights the significance of supportive relationships and the importance of staying true to oneself amidst challenges. TAKEAWAYS Genuosity is about genuine actions from the heart. Betrayal can lead to a loss of trust in relationships. Accountability is crucial for personal growth. Emotional games in relationships can be damaging. Finding genuine connections is a challenge in today's world. Judgment from others can hinder personal happiness. Self-reflection is key to understanding one's worth. Empowerment comes from supportive relationships. Staying true to oneself is essential for happiness. Nice people ultimately find their place in the world. CHAPTER 00:00 Introduction to Genuosity 02:42 Personal Betrayals and Accountability 05:53 Navigating Relationships and Emotional Manipulation 08:51 The Struggle for Genuine Connections 11:39 Facing Judgment and Societal Expectations 14:29 The Importance of Self-Value and Boundaries 17:26 Reflections on Society and Politics 20:28 Empowerment and Personal Growth 23:21 Conclusion and Call to Action 📚 ORDER the PAF book here: ⁠h⁠ttps://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/)⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: ⁠⁠https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/)⁠⁠ 💋 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://ww

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Welcome to "Pu$$y Ain’t Free," the unfiltered relationship podcast that's here to empower women to navigate the dating world with confidence. Join us for candid conversations inspired by our no-nonsense book, offering straightforward advice on finding yourself AND the right partner. Get ready to break free from toxic patterns and embrace your worth. It's time to level up—because Pu$$y Ain’t Free!

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  • Creator
    Pastel B McCoy
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Pastel B McCoy
  • Show Website
    Pu$$y Ain't Free

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