Engage for More

Pam Pegram, Gwen Neal and Kim Ball
Engage for More

We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer YOU! We pray these episodes inspire you to lean in and walk a little bit closer with your Savior as you engage Him in a deeper way and in more areas of your life. As certified faith based Life and Leadership Coaches - Gwen Neal, Kim Ball, & Pam Pegram - show up weekly to share wisdom and insight to help you on your journey to keeping Jesus at the center of it all. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. Also, visit engageformore.com and check out the mentorship program, as well as the coaching programs.

  1. 6D AGO

    171: Exchange your Destructive Criticism for Constructive Criticism Starting Now

    171: Exchange your Destructive Criticism for Constructive Criticism Starting Now The Saboteur of Success is Destructive Criticism. How can we exchange destructive criticism for constructive criticism? Here are 7 tips to start implementing today. 1. Protect the Individual's Self Esteem. Be gentle with your words and careful to not deflate the person you are speaking to. 2. Focus on the Future and Not the Past. Use words like "next time", "in the future", "today is a new day", etc. 3. Focus on the Behavior or the Performance and not the Person. Replace the word "you" with a description of the problem. 4. Use "I" Messages to Retain Ownership of Your Feelings. I feel (insert a word like angry, hurt, frustrated) when you do (insert problematic behavior). 5. Be Clear About What Needs to Change. Be specific, solution oriented, and decision based. 6. Offer to Help. Model the best behavior you expect from others. Serve others, care about others, and give help. Let them know they are not alone by saying "we" - here is what we are going to do. 7. Assume the Best about the Other Person. We hope you enjoy these tips. Share them with your friends. We can all choose to be gentle with our words and be an encouragement to others. CONNECT WITH US AT:▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/ Engage for More is a Top 100 Christian Podcast on the Feedspot List. See the list here - https://podcast.feedspot.com/christian_podcasts/We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer.Here's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKWHere's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-mattersHere's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com#engageformore #constructivefeedback #constructivecriticism

    21 min
  2. MAR 17

    170: How Can I Balance my Faith with My Challenges?

    170: How Can We Balance Our Faith with Our Challenges? We encounter all types of challenges. As believers, as we encounter challenges, we should react differently than the world. We are commanded to cast all of our cares on Jesus, for He cares for us. We are not to wear worry and overwhelm like a blanket. 7 Steps to Shift our Focus from our Challenge to a Solution. 1. Shift your focus from worry to wisdom. Seek Jesus first. Place your trust in Him and heed His advice. His way is wise. Be obedient to His word. 2. Shift from complaining to Christ-centered problem solving. God is moving in our life. We forget too quickly and go back to complaining. Instead, ask God to use you in the midst of your challenge, seek to learn what He is teaching you, and experience growth. Be honest with yourself about where you are and learn to live victoriously. We cannot be looking down, having a pity party, and leading people up the mountain to Jesus at the same time. 3. Shift your focus off of what you can control and focus on surrendering. We are not in control of anything; He is in control of everything. Invite God into every area of your life and surrender it all to Him. The only thing we can control is our attitudes, our actions, and our prayers. 4. Replace fear with faith-filled action. Instead of sitting paralyzed in fear, ask "what step of faith are you asking me to take today, God?" Take the next right step in His strength. 5. Speak life over the problem. We say a lot of negative things about ourselves, our situations, and our plans. Look forward and step into your purpose. Speak life over your situation and let God walk forward with you. 6. Use trials as training grounds for leadership. (James 1:2-4) Trials grow us and strengthen us. Here is where we learn who God is and that He is faithful to be with us. 7. Seek wise counsel and community. Do not isolate. What can you do to move forward? 1. Find yourself a Christian Coach. They will help you identify your blind spots. 2. Get in Bible Study with a leader who will encourage you, challenge you and inspire you. 3. Find friends who love Jesus and speak truth into your life. You were created for such a time as this. It's your time to look up and start leading others to Jesus! Connect with Pam at pampegram.com CONNECT WITH US AT:▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer.Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coachingHere's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKWHere's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-mattersHere's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com#engageformore #faithfilledlife #dailydevotional

    21 min
  3. MAR 3

    169. Do I HAVE to read the bible?

    169. Do I HAVE to read the Bible?"There îș a great difference in knowing the Bible and know where your Bible is." Iva MayPray before you open your Bible and ask God to teach you. Let Him know you want to understand His word. Read it out loud and meditate on it. Ask God, "What do you want me to know?"Change your perspective from "do I have to" read my Bible and replace it "Yay, I GET to" read my Bible. Spend time in the word, memorize it, and ask God to write it on your heart.Bible Reading Tips:1. Choose a translation you can understand and enjoy reading.2. Choose a plan or a strategy for reading. 3. Read curiously. Ask God questions and make notes. Study what you are reading.A great resource is gotquestions.org - where you can ask questions and dig deeper.Did you know the Engage for More podcast in on Feedspots Top 100 Christian Podcasts? Check out the list here - https://podcast.feedspot.com/christian_podcasts/CONNECT WITH US AT:▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer.Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coachingHere's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKWHere's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-mattersHere's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com#engageformore #bible #biblestudy #readyourbible

    19 min
  4. FEB 24

    168: Focus | How to Remove the Distractions

    168: Focus | How to Remove the Distractions What are your distractions? We need to recognize what they are and when they happen. Make a schedule so you can do what you need to do. It's a great idea to set a timer for those things that lead you into distraction. Here are 5 tips for you... 1. Create a schedule - including the things that lead to distraction. Limit the time for that. 2. Setting Goals. Set your goal and the tasks you need to do each day to work toward that goal. 3. Block your favorite distractions for a few hours. 4. Turn off alerts. Put your phone in airplane mode or on silent. 5. Eat without a device. 6. Create distraction free environment. 7. Check your progress. How are you doing with limiting your distractions and reaching your goals? 8. Accountability. Having a Christian coach hold you accountable makes a huge difference. 9. Celebrate the Small Wins. 10. Remember your purpose. Why are you doing this? Is this what God is calling you to do? Implementing these 10 steps will help you focus on what matters and remove your favorite distractions that lead you into things that do not matter. If you need help, we are here for you. You can reach out to us at engageformore.com Key Words: Focus Eliminate Distractions Jesus first Christian Living CONNECT WITH US AT:▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer.Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coachingHere's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKWHere's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-mattersHere's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com#engageformore #focus #eliminatedistractions #dailydevotional #christianliving

    18 min
  5. FEB 17

    167: Still: Stop and Get Out of the Traffic

    167: Stop and Get out of the TrafficPsalm 46:10 tells us, "Be still and know that I am God." He tells us to take a long and loving look at Him. Stand quietly before the our all powerful God and honor Him with your worship and your praise. Spend time at the feet of Jesus and listen to what He has for you. As you engage Jesus, you will learn that He has more for you. In "Praying like Monks" by Tyler Stanton, he writes "Solitude is the furnace of transformation." To become more like God, we must sit in solitude with the Lord. This is where transformation takes place. This is where we learn the character of God. Be still also means to stop fighting. What if you said it this way, "stop fighting and know that I am God, I am in control, I am praiseworthy". First, we must take the time to get to know Jesus and who He is. We should take a vacation from being God. We should surrender and let go of lording over our own life. "Still away with Him for some quality one on one time with the One who can provide peace to all the other fires in your life." Gwen Neal. Surrender your anxiety. Turn over your whole day to God and let Him lead and guide you through your day. Stop arguing, step out of the traffic, and remember the One who controls your day. Hurry is the enemy of your spiritual life. Haste makes waste. Fast won't last. Chaos is a deterrent. Slow down, seek God, and walk with Him. Be still Be still and know Know God Engage for More is on the list of Top 100 Christian Podcasts. See the list here - https://podcast.feedspot.com/christian_podcasts/ Meet our Coaches: Gwen Neal Pam Pegram - pampegram.com Kim Ball Reach out to us to ask a question or speak to one of us - https://forms.gle/utvdGEX5uths18tX9 CONNECT WITH US AT:▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer.Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coachingHere's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKWHere's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-mattersHere's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com#engageformore #bestillandknow #dailydevotional

    17 min
  6. FEB 10

    166: Five Ways God's Love Makes a Difference in How We Live

    166: 5 Ways God's Love Makes a Difference in How we Live The 5 P's... 1. Privately - God's love should be changing us in ways only we know about. He influences our thoughts, our relationship with Him, and our intimacy with Him. He loves us and that should change everything for us. 2. Personally - He authentically influences how we behave, what we do, and the decisions we make. 3. Practically - Because we have experienced God's love, we can show God's love. Practice loving others daily. 4. Professionally - Express His love in the workplace. You can show love to your co-workers, your clients or customers, and the people you see on your way to and from work. God calls us to love those who are difficult to love. People are placed in your life for a reason. Show love. 5. Publicly - God's love should make a difference in our public expressions. Even with those we do not know, we can show God's love. We can be kind, smile, let others go first, pray for someone, and let our light shine. Remember, "For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16) Want to chat with one of our coaches? CONTACT US CONNECT WITH US AT: ▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com ▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore ▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573 ▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/ We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer. Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coaching Here's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKW Here's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-matters Here's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com #engageformore #podcast #godslove #christianliving #dailydevotional

    17 min
  7. FEB 3

    165: Faith Fueled Goals - 6 Steps on How to Follow God and Achieve Your Goals

    Episode 165: Faith Fueled Goals We want you to be equipped to reach your goals. Enjoy these 6 steps guide you 1. Seek God first. (Matthew 6:33) Asking God to direct your day, your To Do list, and everything you do. We have to get out of the way and let Him lead us. Our goals should line up with His goals for us. 2. Ask God. (Matthew 7:7-8) We must seek, ask, and knock. Continue to seek, ask, knock, while allowing Him to guide you. Stop doing and then asking God to bless it. 3. Trust in the Lord, Not Yourself (Proverbs 3:3-5) Don't assume, guess, or feel your way through life. Don't rely on your own understanding. Trust from a higher perspective as you seek God's perspective. Trust is a firm belief in the reliability, the truth, the ability, and the strength of someone or something. 4. Be diligent about your plans, but trust God's timing. (Hebrews 6:12) Daily enter into the process of doing your part to move toward your goal. Be patient, do the work. 5. Transform and Renew Your Mind. (Romans 12:2) How? By the renewing of your mind as you read and study God's word. We are not to conform and do what everyone else is doing. We are told to think differently and to love others more than ourself. 6. Think positive thoughts. (Philippians 4:8) Positive thinking is the food for your mind. Spiritual warfare takes place in the mind. Think on the things that are true, pure, and praiseworthy. This is how to follow God and achieve your goals - which should line up with His goals for you. His has a plan and a purpose for you. Friend, He loves you and His plan for you is good. You can trust that what He is doing is for His glory and for your good. We are here for you. Reach out to us here - https://forms.gle/utvdGEX5uths18tX9 Learn more about us at engageformore.com Please leave us a 5 star rating and a written review to help others find us. Let's link arms and point others to Jesus. CONNECT WITH US AT: ▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com ▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore ▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573 ▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/ We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer. Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coaching Here's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKW Here's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-matters Here's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com #engageformore #faith #goals #goalsetting #dailydevotional

    27 min
  8. JAN 27

    164: Walking In Your True Identity

    164: Walking in Your True Identity We have been talking about our identity. If you haven't already listened, check out Episode 162 and 163. It is so important that you learn to walk in your true identity as a Daughter of the King. Ephesians 4 & 5 is a great place to start to get on the right path. You should no longer be living, being, or acting as you did before you knew Jesus. You are a new person and should be living, being, and acting as a child of God. We will surely mess from time to time. But if we do not surrender and choose to live His way then we will never find our way there. It begins with knowing the truth of God's word and walking with Jesus who is Truth. Be sure to visit engageformore.com and grab a truth journal today. We are to talk on the character of our Father and imitate His behavior. His way is best. His ways are higher. We are to grow - aka transform - to become more like Him. We are to be the bigger person every time. Be sure to download our "Who Are You?" resource at https://www.engageformore.com/freeresources We are so honored to be on the Top 100 Christian Podcast List from Feedspot. Check out the list to see other amazing podcasts to tune into - https://podcast.feedspot.com/christian_podcasts/ Are you ready to check out our coaching programs and resources? You can find them here - https://www.engageformore.com/store We are here to answer your questions and speak into your situation. Complete this form and we will be in touch to schedule a time to chat - https://forms.gle/utvdGEX5uths18tX9 CONNECT WITH US AT: ▶︎Website: https://www.engageformore.com ▶︎Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EngageforMore ▶︎Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/163312072559573 ▶︎Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/engageformore/ We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer. Learn more about our Coaching Programs: https://www.engageformore.com/coaching Here's Pam's book - https://a.co/d/er42DKW Here's Pam's Blog - https://www.pampegram.com/master-what-matters Here's Pam's Website - https://www.pampegram.com #engageformore #identity #walkwithjesus #dailydevotional

    21 min
    4.9
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    48 Ratings

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    We exist to encourage you to engage and experience the more Jesus came to offer YOU! We pray these episodes inspire you to lean in and walk a little bit closer with your Savior as you engage Him in a deeper way and in more areas of your life. As certified faith based Life and Leadership Coaches - Gwen Neal, Kim Ball, & Pam Pegram - show up weekly to share wisdom and insight to help you on your journey to keeping Jesus at the center of it all. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. Also, visit engageformore.com and check out the mentorship program, as well as the coaching programs.

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