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Today, we're diving deep into Lisa's incredible story, her transformative experiences with toxic relationships, and the powerful lessons she's sharing in her must-read book, "Radical Confidence."
As a special treat, we've got some groundbreaking news for our listeners—we're thrilled to announce Lisa's Radical Confidence book is relaunching with a new pink cover, a subtitle that packs a punch, and a bonus chapter that promises to change lives. And let me tell you, the preorder bonuses are impressive: with relationship coaching worth $119 included, our total value skyrockets to $171!
Lisa, who courageously chose herself over an unhealthy relationship, will share how that pivotal moment allowed her to follow her dreams and, serendipitously, meet yours truly. We'll also get into the profound impact that relationships have on self-assurance, the natural protective instincts of motherhood, and the importance of aligning with your partner on key life decisions, such as having children—a path we've chosen to forgo to focus on our global mission.
But Lisa's generosity doesn't end there. She's giving away truly life-changing resources to our listeners, including a signed paperback, personal coaching sessions, and even the ""Ultimate Radical Confidence Guide"" to set you on the path to a bolder, braver you.

PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF 'RADICAL CONFIDENCE' TODAY at RADICALCONFIDENCE.COM

TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Book ""Radical Confidence"" helps women overcome struggles.
03:55 Random giveaways, book excerpt, personal reflections, choices.
08:10 Pre-order now for free bonus worth $171.
12:19 Regained confidence, set strong boundaries, overcame fears.
15:43 Toxic relationships can erode confidence. Bonus giveaway.
19:06 Fascinating mix of open and firm boundaries.
20:59 Desiring loving, trusting relationship with vulnerability.
25:25 Valuing trust and pursuing beautiful relationships.
26:34 Pre-order book to get free valuable bonuses.
30:41 Same value system crucial for success post-sale.
36:11 Hunger affects emotions, failure is inevitable.
39:26 Motherhood is beautiful, necessary, and brings joy
40:37 Overcoming self-doubt, questioning happiness, embracing new choices.
45:37 Choosing to not have kids is valid.
49:18 Discussing prioritizing children and maintaining relationships postparenthood.
53:42 Book intended to help, share with others.
56:47 Impressive journey from unhappiness to confidence.
57:40 Escaped destructive relationship, found true harmony."

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Introducing FKA twigs Is British Vogue’s Cover Star | PLUS What’s Going On With The Royals? from The Run-Through with Vogue.
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Chioma is joined by FKA twigs. Together, they chat about twigs’s highly anticipated album, her leading acting role in “The Crow,” and how she stays in a state of “eusexua” (tune in to find out what that means!). Also in this episode, British Vogue’s Giles Hattersley sits down with the hosts to talk about royal conspiracy theories and the potential TikTok ban.

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another DEEP, impactful episode of Women of Impact where we’re talking about preparing for death and how that helps you to live a life you love, WITHOUT regrets!!
I know, death is a topic we ALL would like to avoid talking about because it can be sad and heartbreaking to think about. But literally we will ALL die, so let’s stop avoiding the inevitable and just talk about it so that we don’t end up dying with regrets!!! 
Here to help us think about death as a way to make sure we LIVE our best lives is America’s #1 death doula, Alua Arthur.  Alua has held the hands of thousands of people as they finally face the pain and complexities of life in their death, and she’s learnt A LOT about the power of making the most out of the life that you get. 
Death is something we ignore as a society and unfortunately the reality is that the fear and denial we have towards dying can actually lead to a lot of regret when our time does come. 

In this powerful episode, we’re talking about: 

- How to live more in the next 30 days than you have in the past 10 years

- The 1 question Alua thinks you should ask yourself before you make a decision

- How to live in the NOW & why doing so is such an important part of a peaceful death

- Why we fear dying so much & steps we can take to overcome that fear

- The power of using your fears around death & loss to add more fuel to your life RIGHT NOW

- How to use the lens of your death to HELP you live life for yourself & not others

- Why procrastination is actually death denial 

- The tiny steps you need to take to live presently & die gracefully

- Why getting older is actually a GIFT that gets you closer to living a happy life

- What “get busy living” ACTUALLY means – and it’s not “hustle more” 


Follow Alua Arthur:
Website: https://goingwithgrace.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/going_with_grace/
Order your copy of “briefly perfectly human” here: https://www.aluaarthur.com/

Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: 
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If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: www.radicalconfidence.com

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Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact. Today, I am thrilled to dive into a topic that's often shrouded in silence but is foundational to our relationships and individual confidence: sexuality. Joining us is the incredible Jaiya, a renowned sexologist who has transformed the conversation around intimacy with her groundbreaking work on sexual blueprints. Together, we'll unravel the complexities of sexual compatibility, tackle the discomfort of sexless relationships, and break free from the chains of shame and embarrassment that too often confine our sexual experiences.
Lisa Bilyeu, with her characteristic openness and depth, shares insights from her own marriage, highlighting the lifesaving importance of understanding and speaking your partner's erotic language. We'll explore the different types of sexual blueprints—energetic, sensual, sexual, and kinky—and discuss how to communicate them effectively, ensuring that you and your partner are truly connected in the most intimate of ways. So, prepare to be empowered and maybe even a bit enlightened, as we discuss how to transform your sexual blueprint into a source of strength and pleasure with the wise guidance of Jaiya.
SHOW NOTES
00:00 Waiting for a chat, promises confidence boost.
04:46 Avoiding "bed death" through communication and intimacy.
08:44 Book "Jaya" helped me communicate sexual needs.
11:22 Effective communication is key to overcoming awkwardness.
15:28 Kindness, open heart, self-work, women's disservice.
16:42 Women often don't express their needs in bed.
21:24 Creating a romantic and sensual atmosphere matters.
26:02 Healing, learning, and expanding in relationships.
27:38 Book empowers confidence and communication in intimacy.
30:07 Thanks for being you, paving the way.

Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: 
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X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu 

If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 
Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m soooo frikin’ excited to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today!!
Today’s guest has been singing about “GIRL POWER” since the 90s, but secretly dealt with abuse in her toxic marriage for 10 YEARS. She tried to leave SO MANY TIMES but kept going back to him and the vicious cycle of abuse before she finally got her power to leave, once and for all!! 
It’s the inspiring, cheat-print-wearing, the one and only “Scary Spice” of the Spice Girls, Mel B!!   
She is getting so real and honest about how she finally escaped the abuse FOR GOOD and took back her power AND how now she’s helping spread the word and support the strong, amazing abuse survivors allllll around the world. 
Mel is here to help us spot the warning signs and GET OUT of toxic relationships before it's too late.  

We cover soooo much in this interview, including:   

- Why the abuser is SO GOOD at hunting you down & controlling you 

- How abuse slowly sneaks up on you and why IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT  

- The 15 signs of what abuse looks like

- Why it’s SO HARD to break the abuse cycle and how 1 promise Mel made actually helped her to leave FOR GOOD

- The 2 words Mel has for ANYONE stuck in an abusive relationship

- How shame and guilt will keep you trapped & hiding the toxic parts of your relationship

- How to deal with the 2 questions you will be asked again and again after you stop hiding the abuse and leave 

- Why you should ALWAYS listen to your gut intuition


So homies, listen to Mel B and don’t let your shame, guilt, and denial keep you abused, used, and trapped in misery!!!

It’s time to stand up and take your GIRL POWER back and never let someone take it from you again!!! 

Follow Mel B:
Website: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmelb
Get Your Copy of “Brutally Honest”: https://geni.us/brutallyhonestpb

Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: 
Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu 
X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu 

If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

SPONSORS:
If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission.
Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in.
Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month.
Post your job for free at https://linkedin.com/LISA 
Sign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine.
Head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off. 
Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa.
Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

***CALLING ALL BADASSES!***
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Friends and family are obviously not always going to agree or even understand the decisions you are making in your relationship. What is decided between you and your partner really doesn’t concern others. But, when you are driven for success and the people around you don’t understand why you are doing the things you do, it gets frustrating. Tom and Lisa give their take on how to think through a family that doesn’t know how to support you, and navigating the thought process, are these people coming from a place of good intentions and well meaning for you and your partner or not. Aside from Tom’s advice to have absolute clarity of the vision you are aiming for, Lisa’s advice is the perfect compliment, to not allow their doubts to poison your thoughts. [Original air date: 10-1-21].

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice to help you build a beautiful relationship.

SHOW NOTES:
Holding You Back | Why family try to hold you back and protect you from pain and failure [0:38]
Judging Your Partner | When people think you’re partner’s decisions are foolish [3:34]
Gifted Doubt | Tom shares how to leverage people not believing in you as motivation [7:36]
Family Pressure | Feeling like you always have to justify and not allowing doubt in [9:45]

QUOTES:
“They're putting limitations on because they love you, they care about you, they're worried about you, they want you to be successful, but they define success oftentimes as the freedom from suffering.” Tom Bilyeu [2:08]
“It doesn't matter what other people think. And even if we failed, I had to get okay with being okay to fail” Lisa Bilyeu [7:04]
“If you know how to leverage the people who want for your failure, if you know how to leverage the people who don't believe in you and you can believe in yourself in those moments [...] it's a gift” Tom Bilyeu [9:19]
“This is my life, this is no one else's, and as long as me and you are on the same page, and as long as me and you have that same vision and are both in communication about what we're doing and in what those next steps are, it doesn't matter what other people think.” Lisa Bilyeu [12:27]
“Whether it's somebody with good intentions, somebody that has bad intentions, it's irrelevant, like performance wins.” Tom Bilyeu [12:56]

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu