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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts
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4.7 • 807 Ratings
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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!
Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!
If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.
Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review!
Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
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#brunchtalk: How Do You Deal With Judgemental Friends or Family When Dating?
Nothing is worse than having judgemental friends or family who pick apart every last person you date. In this week's brunch talk, we're discussing how to deal when the people closest to you think the person you're dating isn't "good enough." We're discuss where this type of feedback may come from, why it's important to know what's useful information versus superficial reasons that should be tuned out, and how you can talk your friends and family in a way that asserts your point of view – and stands up for the person you're dating.
Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
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Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
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Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
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* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
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S18E7: A New Model For Love w/ Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
Do successful partnerships need more than love? We're told that two people meet, fall in love, and come together as one....but is this model deeply flawed? We're chatting with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh about her new model for love that she believes is more sustainable for a lifetime together. We're discussing the differences between emergent and submergent partnerships, the 6 ingredients for lasting love, and how you can start thinking about designing your love life, even if you're single.
Follow Dr. Sara @dr.saranasserzadeh and learn more about her work at https://www.sara-nasserzadeh.com/. And buy the book 'Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love' wherever books are sold
Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Related Episodes:
Love Is Not Enough w/ Mark Manson
Marriage 101 w/ Dr. Alexandra Solomon
Why We Love w/ Dr. Anna Machin
This episode is sponsored by:
Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
Flure Dating App: Try the app Made for Pleasure: https://flure.com
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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#brunchtalk: How Do You Have Difficult Conversations When You're Anxious And They're Avoidant?
Difficult conversations are difficult for a reason – but even more when you're hyper-communicative and your partner is well...not. We're discussing how to having challenging conversations especially when it comes to the momentum of your relationship when one person may be more avoidant and slower paced than the other. We're discussing it all from how to broach these convos without smothering the other person, ways you can advocate for yourself while still listening to your partners perspective, and why it's pivotal that you both get more vulnerable and out of this anxious-avoidant trap.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Last Bottle Wines: Get 10% off your first order with the code DATEABLE at https://www.lastbottlewines.com/
Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today at https://hinge.co/
Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE
Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy -
Quickie w/ Julie: The Best Is Yet To Come
We're back for another “Quickie” where every other week, we’ll share a single idea, theory, or revelation – in 10 minutes or less – that you can take back to your own love life. This week, Julie is sharing a framework to look at past dates or relationships that didn't work out not as failures – but rather as building blocks that lay the foundation for your great relationship that's still yet to come. Enjoy!
Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today: https://hinge.co/
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy -
S18E6: Can AI Save Dating Apps? w/ Ben Chiang
No, we're not talking about ChatGPT or tools that write your profile or texts (or even worse, create fake photos!). We're talking about how AI can actually revolutionize dating apps in the way Tinder did in 2012 (over a decade ago!) Join us as we chat with Ben, the founder of Volar dating, about how they're using AI to cut through the BS of dating apps and make them more efficient. We get it: AI is scary. Before talking to Ben, we weren't 100% onboard either. But now, all we can see are the possibilities. So if you're sick of dating apps as they are, you don't want to miss this episode!
Check out Volar https://www.volardating.com/ or download it on the app store.
Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Related Episodes:
The 80/20 Rule of Dating Apps
#brunchtalk: Can I Use ChatGPT On Dating Apps?
Slaying the Dating Apps w/ Dawoon Kang of Coffee Meets Bagel
This episode is sponsored by:
Last Bottle Wines: Get 10% off your first order with the code DATEABLE at https://www.lastbottlewines.com/
Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today at https://hinge.co/
Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE
Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy -
#brunchtalk: How Do You Step Into Your Feminine Energy (Or Is That Total BS)?
If you identify as a woman (or date women!), you've probably heard about why 'feminine energy' is so important to attract a mate. But it's 2024 people, and we're discussing why this is actually quite problematic even though it feels innocent enough. So buckle up as we chat about why this advice is simply outdated, how to embrace a natural style for you that still gives off an interested vibe, and ways we can all start dating in a way that doesn't feel as performative.
Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com
Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/
Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This episode is sponsored by:
Last Bottle Wines: Get 10% off your first order with the code DATEABLE at https://www.lastbottlewines.com/
Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today at https://hinge.co/
Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/
VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE
Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE
Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast
Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable
Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts
Registration closes for this cohort on Sunday 4/14!
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style
* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE
* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Customer Reviews
Helpful advice
I’m a fairly new listener and enjoy your podcast. I would love to hear more about dating from the perspective of people are of a different generation than you. For example, some of us who dated before digital dating find the new way to date unnatural. It feels like an interview process. I personally struggle with the speed at which men want to move to sex and how to make this progression easier and more natural
Love these girls!
I am in a relationship, but have found that I can relate to most topics. Honestly the episodes are to short with way too many adds. It’s really hard to listen when you have to stop what your doing & constantly fast forward through the adds. Besides all that, I find most of the topics very relatable, or at least entertaining. It’s time to start doing tours girls! They need to fill us in more on what happens in their lives & also have their partners on the pod! SOMEONE PLEASE TEACH JULIE HOW TO SAY EXACTLY! This is literally one of the most annoying things I’ve ever heard.
Down to earth and practical advice.
I get so much from the podcast. It gives me hope. 💘
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