Everyday Legends Mike Campbell

REWIND Episode #09 How to Live with Integrity In this episode, I venture into and explore something very close to my heart - and head and balls - and that is INTEGRITY.
It is my highest value, because, for me, everything else is determined by this. If I don’t have that, then all my other values don’t really get a chance.
Join me as I share some personal stories - including the first one in which as a younger man I fell into a common trap; lying to someone I liked and pulling myself right out of integrity in doing so.
I take you through what integrity actually is, how to assess it, and how to understand it on a deeper level so that if we fall out of it we can navigate our way back in.
I visit a story about a time my now father-in-law hit me with a daunting question in front of his (Nardia’s) family, well before I was even close to being a permanent fixture; “What are your intentions with our Nardia?”
* GULP*
Tune in to see how I handled this. Quite fucking excellently, I might add.
I call on this story often in teaching about integrity because regardless of the answer I shared, what the key point sticks to is - can I be honest here regardless of what that honesty entails?
I venture into some of the nature of men and the masculine in how we have this need to test each other, and essentially what we’re doing is testing the strength, the dependability of those men we go into battle (hunt) with.
If you’re a man struggling to understand yourself, wanting to work out what that niggling little feeling inside of you is, or simply wanting to access what’s possible for you, it starts and stops with INTEGRITY - this episode is for you.
As always, if this lands, please share this episode with a man you know could benefit from it.
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Remember - DO something with the lessons in this podcast. Let me know you’re listening and how you’re applying it in your life - tag me on socials @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
 
Other content mentioned:
Integrity Check-In questions: What was the promise or commitment you made to yourself? What did you choose to do? (Have you been choosing/did you choose to do instead?) What are the consequences? What’s the driver? Is this a pattern? What do you need to do to return to/remain in integrity?  
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REWIND Episode #37 with Matt Brown In this Episode: Enter Matt Brown (and his wife Sarah) - founders of She is not your rehab - a powerful organisation and movement working to change ideas of masculinity through supporting, educating and empowering men to transform the pain of their past instead of transmitting it onto others.
They have made some huge waves globally, even getting The Rock himself into a campaign of theirs.
Beyond that, they have done remarkable work both in places like New Zealand’s high-security prisons, throughout the community, and in Matt’s barbershops My Father’s Barber.
Matt and I discuss his own story from a “volatile childhood” of abuse and violence to healing his own pain to starting to cut hair in order to connect with men, and then the forming of She is Not Your Rehab and the wonderful work they are doing.
I trust you will get something from it - as might a man in your world, please pass it on to anyone you think will benefit from it. I had a great chat with Matt and am a HUGE supporter of their work. You can find out more about him, the work they’re doing, and how to access the book below.
As always, if you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
Where to find Matt and She Is Not Your Rehab: She Is Not Your Rehab Get the Book here Matt on IG SINYR on IG Video campaign that got The Rock involved 

Welcome to the Everyday Legends podcast, your go-to destination for men seeking to build legendary integrity and kick-ass relationships. I'm Mike Campbell, your host, and on this show, we're all about supporting you in getting more out of life, love, and the everyday grind. 
Today, we're delving into the crucial topic of setting boundaries and reclaiming self-respect. Get ready for insights, stories, and actionable advice to help you thrive as the best version of yourself. Let's jump right in!
As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
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REWIND Episode #11 with Amber Hawken I've been very fortunate to be her friend for some time. And that has been both in just two humans connecting on a level that we get each other, but also because of, you know, where we're at and the work that we do. And that's one of the major reasons I wanted to bring Amber onto the show.
Because of the insight, the skills, the expertise she has in helping people get the shit together.
I wanted to bring her on because, as a woman, I believe she has a beautiful and unique perspective for men, as women, of course, do. I will talk to many more women on the show. I wanted to speak to Amber to get a bit of a woman's perspective for men, but more specifically, and as you hear in this podcast, I wanted to speak to the idea of the conversation of safety. 
I've done plenty of posts about this in the past that speak somewhere along the lines of: “Men, she needs to feel safe with you.” 
They usually get a monumental response from women and from guys sometimes “Yes, and okay, please tell me more or make sense of this.” And also "It should go both ways." 
And so, in this episode with Amber, we’ll explore the idea of safety.
What that is to women, to the feminine and in with it, we go into looking at the masculine and feminine; those modes. In us, as individuals, and how that plays out in our relationships, how do we understand these aspects, modes, and energies?
Amber's got some beautiful, uh, personal stories that she shares in amongst this.
For guys, you might want to pass on some of this stuff to some of your female partners. Also, to any of my gay audience, there's a lot here speaking to the feminine in anyone. So it doesn't really matter who you are. I think you can get a lot from this and from Amber, including any female listeners, for sure.
See below for some tools from Amber and how to access more from her.
Mike’s main lessons/takeaways:
This can be a HUGE topic to start exploring for men if you haven’t explored safety and the masculine/feminine. This is a nice starting point, and the perspective of women is easily the most powerful way to learn this. Tune in to the examples she gives, and if you have questions out of it - ask me: Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook
 
Where to find Amber
Website: http://www.amberhawken.com/ Instagram: @amber_hawken Facebook: FB.com/hawkenamber Amber Hawken Podcast Resources mentioned:
Coherent breathing - this link Feel Free in 15 Minutes here

For today's episode, I'm thrilled to be joined by the incredible Alex Cattoni. Alex is a leading digital marketer, copywriter and founder of CopyPosse.
She's on a mission to "De-Douchify the internet" and build an empathy empire.
I've had the pleasure of getting to know Alex over the past year, from meeting in New York to sharing meals and engaging in random conversations. Alex has such a vibrant and joyful personality that really comes through, no matter the medium. She's also incredibly successful in her field, having been named the #1 most popular copywriter of 2023 and Digital Marketer of the Year in 2022.
While we discuss Alex's career and skills, our conversation really dives into finding your authentic voice and bringing it to the world.Alex is a master at this and has so much wisdom to share. We cover a variety of fun and random topics along the way, as is our style. I know you'll find value in Alex's message of empowering others to step boldly into who they are.
Connect with Alex here;
CopyPosse Website CopyPosse Instagram As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me.
Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook.
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REWIND EPISODE #02 Mark Groves, Mr @createthelove.
I was thrilled to have Mark on the show to bring the piece that first connected us to this very topic of the Everyday Legend - a piece he wrote about the ‘Evolved Man’, challenging women who say they want this man if they’re ready for him.
In the show, we explore Mark’s story and what he does. We then start talking about relationship dynamics, how our wounding - our shit - plays out, and with that, we explore codependency.
Mark has a great depth of knowledge in this topic, as well as some practical personal experience (me, too).
Mark is someone whose content and wisdom I trust wholeheartedly. 
As a human connection specialist and a great human being, Mark brings some brilliant insight and always delivers light and engaging content.
Mike’s main lessons/takeaways:
Mark always has so much insight into relationships, and what I really liked about this conversation was where he dives into how our wounding - the shit we went through that created most of our beliefs about ourselves and our behaviours in relationships - ends up becoming an intense driver for sexual attraction often getting us deep into a place we don’t want to be in.
It’s a counter-intuitive piece that Mark brings so much sense to.
This often is the base for codependency, which Mark breaks down nicely in this episode.
“Say, for example, you’re with someone that is hot and cold. The person hits you up at 1 am - a good sign you’re a booty call. You hook up, and the arousal and sexual connection treat the pain of the abandonment and ejection. So we end up in these cycles, and of course, that’s the best sex, right? Of course you do, you have a couple of wounds banging up against each other.”
Where to find Mark and his work:
Website Instagram Podcast Other Resources Mentioned
Why you might not be ready for the evolved man you say you want