49 min
Time Waits For No One Mama Says Namaste Podcast
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- Parenting
If our time is a reflection of what is most important to us, what does it say about you?
This is the second series on the Mama Says Namaste Podcast with my most favorite guest (and partner for life), Nathan Logsdon. In this series, we dig deep into the critical components that create a healthy and happy intimate relationship - join us as we discuss
Laughter, Humble Pie, and Lots of Sex!
“Time management is really a misnomer - the challenge is not to manage time, but manage ourselves. They key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.” - Stephen Covey
As you may have guessed, we juggle a lot - and the essence of it is that life fills up quickly, no matter what your day-to-day appears.
Either you run the day or the day runs you. - Jim Rohn
I’ve heard this issue come up time and time again with couples - they want to have time for their relationship, but by the time they take care of work, the house, and deal with the constant demands from the kids, they are flat too wiped out.
Do a time inventory - where is your time going? Check out www.toggl.com as a way to track yourself.
Scale back your screen time. Don’t just go off cold-turkey, but take an inventory on how much time it’s consuming of your day…and away from your relationships.
Shift the way you mandate things. Instead of “NO MORE TV!” - switch it around and simply let the ones you love know that you prioritize them and you want to spend time with them, not a screen.
Want to know the results of our screen time study in the unschooling families group? Check it out here: http://www.mamasaysnamaste.com/get-results
The One Thing by Gary Keller (http://amzn.to/2vGO4J2). We have no problems dropping it all to zone out for a movie - but how often do we block out everything and devote that same amount of time to just connecting with our spouse or our children?
Turn off notifications. Don’t let them hit you whenever they happen. Schedule a time in to address them instead. Set aside time to devote to the notifications and alerts - guilt-free. And shut it down at other times.
Show your family respect enough that you are willing to set things down.
5am wakeup - yes, it's early and brutal at first. But when we get up between 5-5:30, it allows us to have some refreshing time in the morning to just connect and talk - to lay out our day and just have some time before kids wake up. Check out the book Miracle Morning (http://amzn.to/2vGznWk)
If you are a night owl, figure out how you can time block so you can have that creative energy at the end of the night - but make sure you don’t spring up so late that you are set in reaction-mode for the rest of the day.
Time block. You only have so much sauce to make so many decisions during the day. The less decisions you have to make, the better. So what can you reduce down and simplify?
“Dummyproof” your day - prep your morning the night before so you you don’t have to use up that first morning energy deciding what to wear, what to eat, fumbling around making noise prepping breakfast, etc.
Have at-home date nights. As soon as it's lights out for your kids, it's "lights on" for the two of you. You can create as elaborate of a date as you want. Here is the kicker - these are sacred date nights. This means it's a romantic date to enjoy each other. Keep the dirty laundry out of it and keep the focus for these on having fun and being together.
Some ideas:
Keep it simple and comfortable - veg and watch a movie or show together. Feed your children dinner and you two just snack to tide yourselves over - and then you create a fabulous feast just for the two of you to enjoy after they’re in bed. Get yourselves all cleaned up for each other - take showers or baths (bonus if it's together) and then, if you want, even go through the process to dress up a bit. Fix a fancy drink or dessert and hav
If our time is a reflection of what is most important to us, what does it say about you?
This is the second series on the Mama Says Namaste Podcast with my most favorite guest (and partner for life), Nathan Logsdon. In this series, we dig deep into the critical components that create a healthy and happy intimate relationship - join us as we discuss
Laughter, Humble Pie, and Lots of Sex!
“Time management is really a misnomer - the challenge is not to manage time, but manage ourselves. They key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.” - Stephen Covey
As you may have guessed, we juggle a lot - and the essence of it is that life fills up quickly, no matter what your day-to-day appears.
Either you run the day or the day runs you. - Jim Rohn
I’ve heard this issue come up time and time again with couples - they want to have time for their relationship, but by the time they take care of work, the house, and deal with the constant demands from the kids, they are flat too wiped out.
Do a time inventory - where is your time going? Check out www.toggl.com as a way to track yourself.
Scale back your screen time. Don’t just go off cold-turkey, but take an inventory on how much time it’s consuming of your day…and away from your relationships.
Shift the way you mandate things. Instead of “NO MORE TV!” - switch it around and simply let the ones you love know that you prioritize them and you want to spend time with them, not a screen.
Want to know the results of our screen time study in the unschooling families group? Check it out here: http://www.mamasaysnamaste.com/get-results
The One Thing by Gary Keller (http://amzn.to/2vGO4J2). We have no problems dropping it all to zone out for a movie - but how often do we block out everything and devote that same amount of time to just connecting with our spouse or our children?
Turn off notifications. Don’t let them hit you whenever they happen. Schedule a time in to address them instead. Set aside time to devote to the notifications and alerts - guilt-free. And shut it down at other times.
Show your family respect enough that you are willing to set things down.
5am wakeup - yes, it's early and brutal at first. But when we get up between 5-5:30, it allows us to have some refreshing time in the morning to just connect and talk - to lay out our day and just have some time before kids wake up. Check out the book Miracle Morning (http://amzn.to/2vGznWk)
If you are a night owl, figure out how you can time block so you can have that creative energy at the end of the night - but make sure you don’t spring up so late that you are set in reaction-mode for the rest of the day.
Time block. You only have so much sauce to make so many decisions during the day. The less decisions you have to make, the better. So what can you reduce down and simplify?
“Dummyproof” your day - prep your morning the night before so you you don’t have to use up that first morning energy deciding what to wear, what to eat, fumbling around making noise prepping breakfast, etc.
Have at-home date nights. As soon as it's lights out for your kids, it's "lights on" for the two of you. You can create as elaborate of a date as you want. Here is the kicker - these are sacred date nights. This means it's a romantic date to enjoy each other. Keep the dirty laundry out of it and keep the focus for these on having fun and being together.
Some ideas:
Keep it simple and comfortable - veg and watch a movie or show together. Feed your children dinner and you two just snack to tide yourselves over - and then you create a fabulous feast just for the two of you to enjoy after they’re in bed. Get yourselves all cleaned up for each other - take showers or baths (bonus if it's together) and then, if you want, even go through the process to dress up a bit. Fix a fancy drink or dessert and hav
49 min