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The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.

The Art of Charm The Art of Charm

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The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders. Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.

    Leadership Lessons from Navy SEALs, Fortune CEOs & Top Executives

    Leadership Lessons from Navy SEALs, Fortune CEOs & Top Executives

    In today’s episode, we dive deep into the essence of leadership and personal transformation with a stellar lineup of guests. Brad Lomenick brings his expertise on impactful leadership and personal growth, drawing from his experience as a consultant and author of influential books including H3 Leadership: Be Humble. Stay Hungry. Always Hustle. We hear from Brett Crozier, whose distinguished career in the US Navy offers invaluable lessons on resilience and integrity. Dan Luna, with his rich background as a Navy SEAL and leadership coach, shares insights on developing leadership skills under pressure. John Mackey, the visionary behind Whole Foods Market, discusses the principles of conscious capitalism and leadership that have guided his successful career. Leadership expert Patrick Lencioni provides practical advice on building effective teams and organizations, while Jake Wood, co-founder of Team Rubicon, talks about the power of vulnerability and integrity in leadership. 

    How can you bust leadership myths and embrace humility, hunger, and hustle to drive success? What are the key traits all leaders need, and how can embracing vulnerability and integrity transform your leadership style? This episode of The Art of Charm answers these questions and more, providing you with the tools and insights needed to become a stronger, more conscious leader.

    What to Listen For

    Introduction – 0:00

    What are common misconceptions about leadership roles and titles?

    Why is self-leadership crucial in today's career landscape?



    Most people don’t understand this about group dynamics and leadership frames – 10:10

    How does the concept of "herd mentality" apply to leadership and fitting into social environments?

    Why is focusing on your team or people fundamental to leadership success?



    How do you master leadership skills in your everyday life? – 19:00

    Why is practice crucial in developing leadership skills?

    What makes conscious leadership different from conventional leadership?



    How effective leaders deal with criticism and their inner critic – 29:44

    What can you do to not feel anonymous in your organization and not be that cog?

    How can leaders effectively show vulnerability to their team?

    What are the three things employees need to avoid feeling miserable at work?



    Leading with integrity and handling no’s – 39:05

    What is the importance of facing rejection and criticism for a leader?

    How can leaders remain steadfast and true to their values in the face of adversity?



    Traits that make leaders effective – 47:48

    How do humility and vulnerability contribute to leadership effectiveness?

    How should leaders approach crisis situations to maintain team confidence and trust?


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    • 59 min
    Master Your Attachment Style and Accelerate Your Success | Dr. Judy Ho

    Master Your Attachment Style and Accelerate Your Success | Dr. Judy Ho

    In today’s episode, we tackle attachment with Dr. Judy Ho. Dr. Ho is a clinical neuropsychologist and a tenured professor and researcher at Pepperdine University, works as a forensic expert and media consultant, and last time she joined us to talk about her book, Stop Self-Sabotage, and today, she's back to talk about her latest book, The New Rules of Attachment: How to Heal Your Relationships, Reparent Your Inner Child, and Secure Your Life Vision.

    Everyone knows how attachment styles influence romantic relationships, but how do they hold you back in your career, why do you need to understand your attachment style to build healthy relationships, and what can you do to change your attachment style and raise children with secure attachment styles?

    What to Listen For

    Introduction – 0:00

    What is attachment theory and what are the 4 attachment styles?

    How do parenting styles produce different attachment styles in their children? 



    How to avoid raising insecure children – 13:14

    What do you need to avoid to raise children to have a secure attachment style? 

    If you have an insecure attachment style, what can you do to change it to a secure attachment style?



    How do you change your attachment style – 20:13

    What can you do to break the pattern of avoidant attachment and develop a secure attachment style?

    What are the strengths and weaknesses of the avoidant attachment style?

    How do I connect with an avoidant attachment style?



    The secret to living with an insecure attachment style – 33:14

    What simple 10 second exercise can you do to accept your attachment style while you’re working to change it so it doesn’t sabotage your relationships?



    How to deal with your partner’s attachment style – 40:23

    What can you do if you’re putting in a lot of work to understand your attachment style and your partner’s, but your partner isn’t interested in doing the same work?

    What are you supposed to do when a family member’s attachment style creates conflict with yours? 



    Breaking free of your avoidant attachment style in your career – 49:33

    How does your avoidant attachment style sabotage your career and your ability to advance?

    Should everyone be striving to have a secure attachment style?


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    • 1 hr 4 min
    Achieve More By Doing Less: Slow Productivity | Cal Newport

    Achieve More By Doing Less: Slow Productivity | Cal Newport

    In today’s episode, we tackle slow productivity with Cal Newport. Cal is a leading productivity expert and the author of several best selling books, including a A World Without Email: Reimagining Work in an Age of Communication Overload, Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World, Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World, and So Good They Can't Ignore You: Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work You Love. His newest book is titled Slow Productivity: The Lost Art of Accomplishment Without Burnout.

    What if slowing down was actually the secret to achieving more? In this episode, we dive into the intriguing world of slow productivity: Can embracing a slower pace truly catapult your career success? What are the three foundational principles of slow productivity, and how can you apply them to revolutionize your work ethic? Moreover, why is transforming your relationship with productivity essential for not just professional achievement, but for crafting a fulfilling life?

    What to Listen For

    Introduction – 0:00

    What is pseudo productivity and how does being pseudo productive at work damage your relationships and personal life?

    What’s wrong with how we think about transparency at work and what is the best level of transparency to maximize team productivity?



    The evolution of workplace productivity – 13:49

    Why did productivity decrease when we have so many tools to be more productive?

    What can you eliminate from your daily schedule to be 10x more productive than your competition?

    How do you limit communication to maximize productivity?



    The reason most people can’t leave their work at the office – 28:18

    Why is it important to slow down if you want to increase productivity?

    What are the 3 biggest takeaways from studying traditional knowledge workers that you can use to maximize productivity?



    Can you be more productive without using any email? – 40:45

    What happpened the productivity of 12 employees in a study where the experimenters disabled their email accounts?

    What simple framework can you implement on your team to improve transparency, reduce stress, increase productivity, and increase the collaboration between employees and managers?



    The little known technique to most effectively distribute your team’s workload – 52:23

    Why do rude people get promoted faster?

    What mistake do people make that prevents them from getting promoted without even knowing it?



    How do you apply slow productivity to being a more productive writer – 1:08:16

    What principles of slow productivity should you apply to your writing practice to increase your productivity and efficiency as a writer?

    What simple trick can you implement in your hybrid work situation to decrease time spent on email, increase communication effectivity, increase meeting effectivity, increase productivity, and increase deep work?


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    • 1 hr 36 min
    What Evolution and Human Behavior Can Tell Us About Purpose and Meaning | Sam Wilkinson

    What Evolution and Human Behavior Can Tell Us About Purpose and Meaning | Sam Wilkinson

    In today’s episode, we tackle meaning and purpose with Samuel T Wilkinson. Sam is a professor of psychiatry at Yale University, an associate director of the Yale Depression Research Program, and the author of his latest book Purpose: What Evolution and Human Nature Imply about the Meaning of Our Existence.

    In this episode, we explore the two sides of human nature and how they guide us to find our true purpose. We dive into free will's role in achieving a good life, look at how committed relationships affect our happiness, and share new scientific findings on evolution that help explain our life's meaning. 

    What to Listen For

    Introduction – 0:00

    How does understanding the duality of human nature enhance your leadership and communication strategy?

    Is our success and decision-making process truly random, or is there an underlying order that can be leveraged for personal growth?



    How do different religious beliefs about free will influence our life choices and purpose? – 14:48

    Can exploring various beliefs on free will unlock a deeper sense of purpose and direction in life and career?



    What are the implications of Monogamy vs. Promiscuity on society and personal well-being? – 20:10

    How do shifting norms around relationships impact societal stability and individual well-being?

    How do relationships define our happiness and purpose, according to the longest running study on human development?



    How do deep meaningful relationships fuel our search for purpose? – 33:00

    How do relationships and attachment theory play a critical role in finding purpose and fulfillment?

    What are the actionable steps to deepen your connections and harness the power of meaningful relationships in your personal and professional life? 



    How does parenthood reshape our priorities and enhance our sense of purpose? – 40:16

    How does parenthood transform one's priorities and contribute to a greater sense of purpose and societal contribution?

    What are the unique rewards and challenges of raising children, and how do they impact personal growth and career advancement?


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    • 59 min
    Supercommunicators & The Secret Language of Connection | Charles Duhigg

    Supercommunicators & The Secret Language of Connection | Charles Duhigg

    In today’s episode, we tackle supercommunicators with Charles Duhigg. Charles is a Pulitzer prize-winning reporter, writer for The New Yorker magazine, and the author of two New York Times bestsellers, The Power of Habit, and his second book, Smarter Faster Better. His latest book, Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection, is available February 20, 2024.

    We discuss how supercommunicators use 3 types of conversation to their advantage. Charles shares a 3 second preparation routine you can use instantly to make your conversations better. How to skip small talk and take conversation deeper to create connection with anyone, and why recognizing social identities can help you manage difficult conversations effectively.

    What to Listen For

    Introduction – 0:00

    How do you recognize a supercommunicator in your life, and what impact do they have on your personal development and well-being?

    What do supercommunicators do so well that most people suck at?



    The thin line between authentic conversation and interrogation – 16:29

    What simple mindset shift can you make to turn boring conversations into fulfilling conversations that engage the other person and make them look forward to talking to you?



    Social media gets toxic because most people don’t know these rules – 24:13

    Why are there rules for communicating through different forms of technology and how do those rules cause social media to be so toxic?

    If you want lifelong happiness, what do you need to have by age 45 and 65?



    The little known technique that makes hard conversations easy – 34:28

    What are the 3 types of conversations and how do you know which type you’re having with someone so there’s no disconnect?

    How do you build out the skill set to be more comfortable expressing vulnerability?



    Quick guide to prepare you for any conversation – 47:43

    What are practical ways to mentally prepare for emotional and social discussions, even if you're not accustomed to expressing vulnerability?


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    • 56 min
    Learned Excellence: Leadership Lessons from the Navy SEALs | Dr. Eric Potterat

    Learned Excellence: Leadership Lessons from the Navy SEALs | Dr. Eric Potterat

    In today’s episode, we tackle learning excellence with Eric Potterat and Alan Eagle. Eric is one of the world's leading performance psychologists, a retired US naval commander, a lead psychologist for the US Navy Seals, the Los Angeles Dodgers, and co-author of Learned Excellence: Mental Disciplines for Leading and Winning from the World's Top Performers. His co author, Allan Eagle, is a colleague of Dr. Potterat’s at Google and best selling author himself. He was blown away by Dr Potterat’s lessons and wanted to co-author a book To share Eric's knowledge with the world. 

    How can the mental disciplines used by the world's elite performers transform not just your career, but how you connect with others? We uncover the secrets to achieving unparalleled success and fulfillment, learning from experts who've coached the best, from Navy SEALs to top business leaders, on learning excellence, becoming visible in elite circles to unlock career opportunities, and the 6 pillars of performance you need to master to become elite. 

    What to Listen For

    Introduction – 0:00

    What simple exercise can you do to improve your performance in every area of your daily life?



    The mindset shift most that causes most people to give up – 14:00

    What do you do when effort and hard work are not enough to perform at your best or reach your goals?

    What is the key to becoming excellent at anything you choose to pursue, even if you’re currently terrible at it?



    How do you know if you’re on the right path – 27:20

    What can you look for to figure out if you’re on the right path or using the right process to solve your problem?

    What can you do to get yourself ready before a big speech or pitch to manage stress, and how do you manage the stress in the moment?



    How do elite performers take valuable experience from everything they do – 37:50

    What are the 6 pillars you should always maintain in life to create the greatest resilience before life inevitably kicks you in the face?



    Unlocking elite performance in your children – 45:54

    How do you help your children learn excellence?

    What questions can you ask your kids everyday to achieve their potential?


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    • 59 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
10.5K Ratings

10.5K Ratings

JStoneCo ,

Entertaining. Engaging. Educational.

The perfect blend of book smarts and humor. Jordan has a knack for interviewing people and getting them to open up and have real conversations. I tuned into the Noah Kagan episode (if you haven't checked it out you should) and I found myself rewinding multiple times because it was funny and very informative. I especially enjoyed when Noah shared his process for reverse engineering a desired result. It's a simple process that can benefit anyone in almost any situation. For example, Noah mentioned that he reversed engineered his clothing choices when he desired a particular response - and he wasn't talking about wearing anything weird or graphic. He also gave an example of how to create content that has a much greater chance of going viral. The alternative being content that gets little to no readership or views, and certainly no likes or shares.

I'm very impressed with the high level of content and the delivery.

If you're looking to improve your communcation in dating, business, networking, or in any other area this show can help you.

Drew Silver ,

Wow

These guys have an awesome show running. You will not be able to find a better regularly updated source for knowledge on the subject of social dynamics. They have big name guests, an awesome community forum on their website, and they host some really awesome events in various cities. Check 'em out!

sheershir ,

Awesome Hosts, Phenomenal Show

By far the best free source of information on social dynamics and the world of dating. AJ and Jordan's motives behind the podcast are purely altruistic, and it shows in every single episode. Not only do they really know their stuff, but they bring on a wide range of guests who have particular insights in specific areas of dating that have proved absolutely invaluable to me during my ongoing personal transformation. These guys rock!

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