Livin' and Lovin' in NYC Livin' and Lovin' in NYC

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Otterpup joins us as we get uncharacteristically serious and imbue or sex podcast with political meaning. We do a post-inauguration debrief and talk about how the Victator got the wind knocked out of her, Gayle got frenzied, and Otterpup decided he's not a centrist after all, while his parents stepped up guns-a-blazing to take a stand for gay rights, Gayle's pessimism, if the Trump presidency is validating bigotry and shaking some people out of their comfortable belief in prograss, Also: Gayle and Otterpup come out as an immigrants, an unexpected uptick in Hong Kong listeners, and why we want to keep talking about butt-plug sizes and the finer points of gender identity despite it all.

Recorded on a porch in the Lowcountry, in which NuBritt and the Victator come together again to discuss their vaginas, how femme is not equal to sub, why the size of your pussy and labia have nothing to do with how much sex you’ve had, NuBritt’s hermit ways and how she once broke a bed, moving in together on the first date, edging, that time the Victator got the orgasm yips, and most importantly: they both finally learn where pussy lubrication comes from.

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in a more innocent time, before the election — in which Dusty and Max join as we talk about male bisexuality, if it’s more ok for ladies to be bi, if dicks rule everything, if men lose more privilege than women by coming out, Prince, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, and why hair metal was actually macho, how the AIDS epidemic put an end to speedos, man-boy love, ancient Greece, Berlin in the ‘30s, passing and not passing, if everything is RuPaul’s fault, and why dating apps are the place to be open about wanting to be shit on. Plus: Don’t forget to like us on Facebook.

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Rina from Indulgence Boutique joins us as we discuss sex toys, the Victator's conversation with Dr. Chris Donahue, penis oriented sex-toy company TENGA's study “The United States of Masturbation,” notions of masculinity as a barrier to cis-male use of toys, Ms. Mayness' trunk full of toys, the lack of friendly sex toy stores outside of major cities, how timing is everything when introducing toys to partners, checking that ego, Kegel detectors, orgasm noises (or lack thereof), ease of orgasms as baller status, and a blow-job hack for the deep-throat-averse. PLUS: a very special appearance from the KPISS landlord.

Recorded not-so-live in Gale's living room, in which Vintage Britt joins us as we discuss if there is a cultural disconnect when it comes to lesbians and the eggplant emoji, the Victator’s and Vintage Britt's "D reset button”, chasing the ick, times we don't want to have sex, why guy-on-guy porn is how Gale knows she'll never be 100 percent lez, which is better for your sex life: freelancing or office work, which came first: the chicken or the D, what lady doesn't like g******g porn, Vintage Britt and her same sex lover's epic celebrity fan fiction pursuits, and remember: don't fuck Donald Trump!

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Lucy joins us as we discuss sex in long-term relationships, “givin' out the fake cellphone and name,” defining “relationships” outside of exclusivity, when sex plummets off the cliff of priorities, sex frequency, how Gale needs sex ALL THE TIME, how emotional distance can get you stuck in the lust zone, and how sex is sometimes (shocker!) better in LTRs, the Victator gets sappy in her PMS, stress as a lady-boner killer vs. sex as stress relief, the Octopussy, masturbation and cohabitation, cumming standing up, saving your orgasms, and what the hell "multiple orgasms" really means.