This Glorious Mess

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KIDS & FAMILY

A weekly look at parenting as it truly is: confusing, exhausting, inspiring, funny, and full of surprises. Join Tegan Natoli and Annaliese Todd every Monday as they discuss all the disasters and delights of parenting with a healthy dose of advice from our trusted experts.

2 DAYS AGO

Sam Wood On His Attitude 'Flip' Towards Couples Counselling

In today's candid episode, fitness guru and girl-dad Sam Wood gets refreshingly honest about the behind-the-scenes challenges of raising four daughters. He shares the very relatable conundrum of what happens when different parenting styles cause tension, and how couples counselling helped him and his wife Snez navigate their way through. Sam opens up about his initial hesitations and the common misconception that therapy is just for relationships in serious trouble - which theirs wasn't. And, he reveals how it's been game-changing for their relationship that was already 'good' but how it made it 'even better'. This conversation goes beyond the perfect Instagram family moments, offers real talk, and lifts a stigma on what so many parents experience, but rarely openly discuss. THE END BITS WIN $10k to use towards a cleaner* Visit nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores to enter!*Promotion starts between 24/03/25 (AEDT) – 31/07/25 (AEST). AU residents 18+. Max 1 entry p/person. Draw: Unit 3/2 Cross St, Brookvale NSW 2100 at 10am AEST on 05/08/25. Prize: $10,000 transferred to winner’s bank account. Winner notified and published on nestle.com.au/productnews/winners by 12/8/25. Claim prize by 5pm AEDT on 12/11/25. Unclaimed prize draw occurs 13/11/25. Promoter: Nestle Australia Ltd. Full T&Cs at www.nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores. Permit No's: ACT TP 25/00355 & SA T25/260. https://www.bosch-home.com.au/ Head here to get a yearly subscription for just $39. and use the code MONTHOFTGM We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. LINKS TO EVERYTHING MENTIONED: Annaliese's article on 50-50 custody and microgrief 28 by Sam Wood CREDITS: Host: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd With thanks to Sam Wood Producer: Tina Matolov Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

26 min
4 DAYS AGO · BONUS

Answering The Question Adolescence Asks

Netflix's confronting new series Adolescence has everyone talking about how young boys are being exposed to dangerous online ideologies and incel culture. But beyond just highlighting the problem, what can actually be done to protect our kids from this digital rabbit hole? THE END BITS Support independent women's media Check out The Quicky Instagram here Tell us what's important to you this election: Take the Mamamia Votes survey here GET IN TOUCH Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice note or email us at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Hosts: Taylah Strano & Claire Murphy Guests: Simone Heng, Human Connection Specialist & Author of Let's Talk About Loneliness Executive Producer: Taylah Strano Audio Producer: Lu Hill Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

13 min
2 APR

Parents Anonymous - Losing a kid at the airport

On today's show, one parent confesses to the appalling amount of television they watch with their baby, while another mum admits to letting her 7 year old and his friend watch a nightmare-inducing film. And we hear how a father of four left one of his kids behind at the airport when boarding a flight! You can share your best worst parenting stories by leaving us a voice note, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au or for super shame super anonymous you can pop them in this form. THE END BITS WIN $10k to use towards a cleaner* Visit nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores to enter!*Promotion starts between 24/03/25 (AEDT) – 31/07/25 (AEST). AU residents 18+. Max 1 entry p/person. Draw: Unit 3/2 Cross St, Brookvale NSW 2100 at 10am AEST on 05/08/25. Prize: $10,000 transferred to winner’s bank account. Winner notified and published on nestle.com.au/productnews/winners by 12/8/25. Claim prize by 5pm AEDT on 12/11/25. Unclaimed prize draw occurs 13/11/25. Promoter: Nestle Australia Ltd. Full T&Cs at www.nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores. Permit No's: ACT TP 25/00355 & SA T25/260. Head here to get a yearly subscription for just $39. and use the code MONTHOFTGM We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women.Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers.We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS:Hosts: Annaliese Todd & Stacey HicksProducer: Tina Matolov Audio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

19 min
30 MAR

Leigh Campbell On How To Elevate Your Mum Style, Plus Effortless Makeup and Skincare Tips For When You Have Zero Time

Fashion and Beauty guru and host of 'You Beauty' and 'Nothing to Wear' podcasts Leigh Campbell swoops in to rescue tired mum wardrobes with style hacks that won't break the bank! From breastfeeding-safe skincare to escaping the activewear rut, Leigh shares her effortless skin, makeup and fashion secrets to help sleep-deprived parents look refreshed and fabulous in just minutes. Plus! It's the most confusing time of the year - daylight savings! Dr Golly is here to help us navigate the tricky time transition with our kids of all ages. THE END BITS WIN $10k to use towards a cleaner* Visit nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores to enter!*Promotion starts between 24/03/25 (AEDT) – 31/07/25 (AEST). AU residents 18+. Max 1 entry p/person. Draw: Unit 3/2 Cross St, Brookvale NSW 2100 at 10am AEST on 05/08/25. Prize: $10,000 transferred to winner’s bank account. Winner notified and published on nestle.com.au/productnews/winners by 12/8/25. Claim prize by 5pm AEDT on 12/11/25. Unclaimed prize draw occurs 13/11/25. Promoter: Nestle Australia Ltd. Full T&Cs at www.nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores. Permit No's: ACT TP 25/00355 & SA T25/260. Head here to get a yearly subscription for just $39. and use the code MONTHOFTGM We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Host: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd With thanks to Leigh Campbell and Dr Golly Dr Golly’s Sleep and Toddler Toolkit Parenting Programs Producer: Tina Matolov Audio Producer: Jacob Round Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. LINKS TO EVERYTHING MENTIONED: Nourishing BB Cream Medium Tint SPF50+ Airyday Golden Glow Dreamscreen SPF 50+ Ultra Violette Daydream Screen SPF 50 Tinted Veil Max Factor Miracle Pure Blush Radiant Rose 001 OXX Cosmetics Luminous Blush Balm - Paradise Positive Light Under Eye Brightener Elf Cosmetics C-Bright Putty Primer - Universal Sheer Babassu Oil Eye Pencil Bioderma Sensibio H2O Soothing Micellar Water Cleanser Paula's Choice Hydrating Treatment Mask Aspect Hydrating Mask The Ordinary The Skin Support Serum Set tbh Skincare Rebound Serum Go-To Spot Stoppas Mothersafe, great resource for what's safe to use and take Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

26 min
26 MAR

Sleep Divorce & 3pm Dinner: Hacks For A Better Sleep (Best Of)

We need to talk about sleep. Not your kids sleep - YOUR sleep. This episode Tegan and Annaliese share how the mental load impacts their sleep, and discuss how a "sleep divorce" could be the key to a good nights rest. Annaliese speaks to a sleep expert, leading to her full meltdown after learning about the mistakes she's been making and how we could all be doing better in the bedroom. Plus, Sarah Marie hears from a mom craving alone time but feeling like she'll never get it. And, we hear from the regional mum who feeds her kids dinner at 3pm (yes you read that right) all in the name of calm afternoons and a better sleep routine. THE END BITS WIN $10k to use towards a cleaner* Visit nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores to enter!*Promotion starts between 24/03/25 (AEDT) – 31/07/25 (AEST). AU residents 18+. Max 1 entry p/person. Draw: Unit 3/2 Cross St, Brookvale NSW 2100 at 10am AEST on 05/08/25. Prize: $10,000 transferred to winner’s bank account. Winner notified and published on nestle.com.au/productnews/winners by 12/8/25. Claim prize by 5pm AEDT on 12/11/25. Unclaimed prize draw occurs 13/11/25. Promoter: Nestle Australia Ltd. Full T&Cs at www.nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores. Permit No's: ACT TP 25/00355 & SA T25/260. Gift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women.Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers. We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS:Hosts: Annaliese Todd, Tegan Natoli and Sarah MarieProducer: Grace RouvrayAudio Producer: Lu Hill Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

26 min
23 MAR

Understanding Both Sides of Hugh Van Cuylenburg's Open Letter

In today's episode, we explore the thoughtful discussion sparked by Hugh Van Cuylenburg's viral and emotional open letter about parenting his autistic child, and the mixed reactions across the country. Dr Siobhan Lamb joins us with a valuable perspective. She is autistic, works as a Neurodevelopmental Educator, and is a parent to autistic children. She has been the parent, the teacher and the child. With warmth and insight, she helps bridge the gap between parents who felt seen by Hugh's message, and the adult autistic community who expressed concerns - and how we can move forward together. THE END BITS Thank you to Dr Siobhan Lamb, from Developmental Paediatrics Mamamia article 'What everyone's missing in the Hugh Van Cuylenburg story, as an autistic mum to autistic kids.' WIN $10k to use towards a cleaner* Visit nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores to enter!*Promotion starts between 24/03/25 (AEDT) – 31/07/25 (AEST). AU residents 18+. Max 1 entry p/person. Draw: Unit 3/2 Cross St, Brookvale NSW 2100 at 10am AEST on 05/08/25. Prize: $10,000 transferred to winner’s bank account. Winner notified and published on nestle.com.au/productnews/winners by 12/8/25. Claim prize by 5pm AEDT on 12/11/25. Unclaimed prize draw occurs 13/11/25. Promoter: Nestle Australia Ltd. Full T&Cs at www.nestlebabyandme.com.au/pausethechores. Permit No's: ACT TP 25/00355 & SA T25/260. Head here to get a yearly subscription for just $39. and use the code MONTHOFTGM We’re listening! Send us a voice message, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS: Hosts: Tegan Natoli, Annaliese Todd Producer: Tina Matolov Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

30 min
21 MAR

Introducing: How To Build A Universe

Welcome to How To Build A Universe, where stories build worlds! In this episode, we're stepping into The Whispering Woods, an enchanted forest where magic lives in every tree and friendly creatures need your help. Join host Thom as he meets Nibbles the possum and helps him on a very special mission to find the magical Sparkleberry Tree. THE END BITS: Discover more Mamamia podcasts here. Feedback: podcast@mamamia.com.au Send us a voice message, and one of our podcast producers will get back to you ASAP. CREDITS: Hosts: Thom Lion and Gen Muir Executive Producer: Courtney Ammenhauser Writing, Sound Design and Songs: Thom Lion Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

15 min
19 MAR

Parents Anonymous: Help My Mum's Leaking!

On today's show we hear how one parent is shamed for desperately dashing to get a donut while her son naps nearby, while another mum is outed for 'leaking', and we discover a surprising place to stash snacks that the kids won't ever think to look! You can share your best worst parenting stories by leaving us a voice note, email us at tgm@mamamia.com.au or for super shame super anonymous you can pop them in this form. THE END BITSGift a Mamamia subscription: Head here to give the best stuff for women.Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you’ll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers.We’ve compiled all the best resources for new mums in a free newsletter. Join the mailing list. CREDITS:Hosts: Annaliese Todd & Stacey HicksProducer: Tina Matolov Audio Producer: Lu Hill Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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9 Feb

QueerAnimalSoul

This helped me come out to my parents! Thanks!
Wonderfully real :)

4 Feb

RiffRaff2207

A great duo. Really nice mum chats :)
More annaliese

07/08/2024

sobergal1

Loving annaliese, she is funny and relatable.
It’s Over

26/08/2024

LGW, Brisbane

I’ve patient and listened from Holly to Andrew, Leigh and Tegan, Tegan to Libby and now Tegan to everyone. But the Thermomix Infomercial tipped me over the edge. I’m sorry we’re breaking up.
💤 Sleep.

08/07/2024

TheresaMCM

Excellent Mother in law advice from Sarah-Marie! Food in many families is expressing love so the table is laden!
The Village has nits

19/06/2024

Sonny!73

I loved this episode. It made me laugh out loud and I’m not a laugh out loud person! I felt like I was having a coffee and chatting with friends. As a mum who always seems to be getting nit alerts from school and checking heads it was very relatable. It also made my head a bit itchy. Thanks guys, great episode.
Confusing hosts

02/07/2024

D Louise 💜

It’s such this was my fave OG parenting paddy. Now I can’t keep track of the voices and ever changing hosts…
Loving the new vibe!

18/06/2024

Sofie_1

I’ve been hesitant to listen for a while as the show was feeling a bit repetitive.But I am really enjoying the new show. Good to hear more diverse voices, thank you for listening to your audience.
So funny

18/06/2024

Tess1989x

Loving the new host. As a single parent it’s so refreshing to hear her side of the conversation. Am literally laughing out loud. Thank you!!
Love this tween back to school episode

09/01/2024

Ettere

Oh Holly!! How I have missed your tones on this glorious mess!! I found this episode so useful being a mother of a new high schooler. Love the combined episode of Help I have a teenager and this glorious mess!! Listened several times. Thanks so much!!